Saturday, November 28, 2009

Beautiful enemy

Beautiful enemy concept is very simple. Instead of surrounding yourself with Yes type of people you should surround yourself with people that know how to say no to you.

Its a common mistake of all of us to surround ourselves with people that confirm all the things we do. Its all the time more pleasant to hear appreciation about stuff we are doing. Just because we put so much effort into it. However we are not perfect even when we think that we are. Therefore we need to be told about our mistakes. But it is so difficult to listen to all the criticism...

Here is where the beautiful enemies should come on scene. Beautiful enemies are special kind of people that know how to present criticism. This type of people will not agree with all you say, but they present the disagreement with special treatment not to hurt you much. They take care about your feelings on one way but also want you to become better in the other.

Where are all the beautiful enemies? At the first look we will found out that the beautiful enemies species is very rare among us. As it certainly requires a lot of empathy intellect and kindness for a person to become a beautiful enemy. However the hope is not lost yet. As we will start understanding the concept of the beautiful enemy in depth we will found out that beautiful enemies can be made.

I believe that right now all of us know already how to make them. The first step is relatively easy. As it is not the beautiful enemies empathy intellect and kindness what is required. It is ours. As we can create the beautiful enemies in others when we understand the criticism they present toward us...

After the first step however there is one much more difficult step in the beautiful enemies creation process. As we need to become beautiful enemies to others. As we want all our friends spouses and families to grow in all the possible ways we need to become beautiful enemies toward them. This second step will definitely require much more effort but it is definitely worth all the energy that we put into it.

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